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The Magic of Moderation: How Not to “Spoil” Your Child

We all know one. We’ve seen him or her screaming for stuff at the mall, thanklessly ripping open presents, using rude language; the kid we call spoiled. While most parents would choose not to raise such a child, this behavior is celebrated in our “more is always better” culture. (From pillows to t-shirts, look at all of the ways the “princess” mentality is marketed.)

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The Discipline Tool Kit

When I think of a parent's discipline tool kit, I regard punishment (spanking, time out, loss of privileges) as the hammer. Although a hammer may be useful, a structure will not be built with it alone. In fact, pounding on a structure will weaken it…

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The Learning Years

On the spot advice to navigate parenting challenges

The Learning Years is a wide-ranging reference with fresh insights into child-rearing and self-care for parents. This book addresses typical parenting issues with to-the-point, practical information perfect for busy caregivers. There is a strong emphasis on embracing imperfection, prioritizing, and finding joy in everyday moments.