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Raising Peaceful Children in a Violent World

A persistent string of mass shootings, senseless killing, and police brutality has invigorated social interest in what leads to violence. The primary factors being debated include gun control, screening people who purchase guns (including their mental health status), and the impact of media violence.

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The Power of Play: Birth to One Year

Play is serious business for babies and children. Far from frivolous, play is how babies come to understand that they are separate individuals that can act upon people and things in their world and get a response! If their environment is safe and nurturing, play will jump-start all of their systems including cognitive, motor, language, social, and emotional skills. In fact, some sensory systems such as vision are dependent upon environmental stimulation to develop.

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Beyond ABC and 123: How to prepare your toddler for preschool

The best way to prepare children for success in the classroom is by letting them do what nature intended children to do-- explore their environment, express their ideas and delight in their discoveries. So parents are advised to leave the drills and software behind, turn off the iPad and join their children in play.

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The Magic of Moderation: How Not to “Spoil” Your Child

We all know one. We’ve seen him or her screaming for stuff at the mall, thanklessly ripping open presents, using rude language; the kid we call spoiled. While most parents would choose not to raise such a child, this behavior is celebrated in our “more is always better” culture. (From pillows to t-shirts, look at all of the ways the “princess” mentality is marketed.)

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The Discipline Tool Kit

When I think of a parent's discipline tool kit, I regard punishment (spanking, time out, loss of privileges) as the hammer. Although a hammer may be useful, a structure will not be built with it alone. In fact, pounding on a structure will weaken it…

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The Learning Years

On the spot advice to navigate parenting challenges

The Learning Years is a wide-ranging reference with fresh insights into child-rearing and self-care for parents. This book addresses typical parenting issues with to-the-point, practical information perfect for busy caregivers. There is a strong emphasis on embracing imperfection, prioritizing, and finding joy in everyday moments.